11/13/12
Gothic Lit, Waggoner
Blog 5, Option 4
The Beauty of Friendship
Friend: someone who you like
or enjoy spending time with. Someone you trust. Someone who helps or supports
you. Friends can be anyone: your sister or brother, your mom or dad, someone
you grew up with, someone you just met, or even your dog or cat. Friendships
are a vital part of who we are. They can shape and define us in various ways.
They influence us. And they make life more meaningful.
In Ray Bradbury’s, Something
Wicked This Way Comes, Will Halloway and Jim Nightshade are two young boys
who are best friends. Born only a second apart, these boys have grown up
together, live next door to each other, and are inseparable. After reading only
the first few chapters of this book, the readers quickly learn the striking
personalities of these friends and begin to understand their relationship
better. As I read this, I was drawn to Will and Jim’s relationship because it
reminded me of my own relationship with a good friend. I was able to relate to
Will, realizing that I have several of the same character traits as him. I
noticed how Jim embodies many of the same features as my friend, and found
myself comparing their relationship to my own.
As one will notice shortly
after being introduced to him, Will Halloway is a sensitive, empathetic boy who
is less prone to action than Jim. He tends to think before he acts, always
considering the potential consequences of his actions. For example, when the
boys are exploring Hickory Street, Jim begs Will to go with him to the
“Theatre”. Jim is persistent and excited, whereas Will is nervous and scared,
“swallowing hard” (Bradbury 27), and seems to have to convince himself to work
up the courage to go. As noticed from this example, Jim is quick to think, and
even quicker to act. He tends to go with his gut instinct and never ask the
opinion of others. Jim believes in freedom above all else, and claims that he
will “never own anything that can hurt me” (Bradbury 40). These two tend to be
the complete opposite of one another, yet their relationship works. They
complement each other well, their personalities balancing each other out:
So
there they go, Jim running slower to stay with Will, Will running faster to
stay with Jim, Jim breaking two windows in a haunted house because Will’s
along, Will breaking one window instead of none, because Jim’s watching. God,
how we get out fingers in each other’s clay. That’s friendship, each playing
the potter to see what shapes we can make of the other. (Bradbury 18)
I kept imaging my relationship with my
best friend as I read this, and thinking how our personalities also balance
each other out. My friend, just like Jim, is quick to act, is outgoing, and
loves to be spontaneous and do things. She is quick to build up walls, and is
afraid of getting hurt by people. I, on the other hand, am just like Will as I
tend to be more cautious, overprotective, and hesitant to spontaneously do
things. However, even though we are different, our relationship works. We get
each other. We are good for each other, just like Will and Jim: “Will runs
because running is its own excuse. Jim runs because something’s up ahead of
him. Yet, strangely, they do run
together” (Bradbury 17).
Sometimes,
I get discouraged by our relationship because I feel like I am not as
adventurous as my friend, not as fun, not as daring. I want to be spontaneous like her, but that is simply just not my
personality. I find myself thinking about it often, just like Will:
And
running, Will thought, Boy, it’s the same old thing. I talk. Jim runs. I tilt
stones, Jim grabs the cold junk under the stones and—lickety-split! I climb
hills. Jim yells off church steeples. I got a bank account. Jim’s got the hair
on his head, the yell in his mouth, the shirt on his back and the tennis shoes
on his feet (Bradbury 48)
I have to remind myself that I am a different
person than my friend, and because of that our relationship works. I contribute
to the friendship in ways she can’t. And just like Will and Jim, we are not
competing for anything: “Nobody won. Nobody wanted to win. It was in their
friendship they just wanted to run forever, shadow and shadow…no one losing,
both winning, thus saving their friendship for other times of loss” (Bradbury
12). Our friendship isn’t a battle for who can be the better friend. It’s about
supporting and loving each other, even through the hard times. I cannot imagine
my life without my sweet friend, and wouldn’t change our personalities for
anything. She pushes me to be a better person. She makes me laugh. I can tell
her anything. And she’ll bring me ice cream when I need to cry. Yes, we have
our conflicts, and our personalities get the best of us sometimes, but it
works. Just like Will and Jim. It’s a beautiful thing. Friendship is a beautiful thing. And I wouldn’t trade it for
anything.
Bradbury, Ray. Something Wicked This Way Comes. New York, Avon Books: 1997. Print.
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